Stella King, Esq. is a resident of Tarrytown and a partner at Enea, Scanlan & Sirignano, LLP, a White Plains-based law firm that concentrates its practice in elder law; wills, trusts, and estates; Medicaid planning and applications (home care and nursing home); guardianship proceedings for the disabled (contested and non-contested); and special needs planning for the disabled. In families with multiple adult children, there is often one child wh…