Anna Ware was filled with dread when she opened her door to two servicemen. It was a week before Christmas in 2009. Her 27-year-old son Albert Ware, an Army sergeant and father of three, was serving his second tour in Afghanistan. The uniformed men on the doorstep of her Pullman home told her Albert was killed after a roadside bomb blew up his Humvee. “I could just see death in their eyes. And I just closed the door because I didn’t want to hear…