James Wilder III, a former teacher and coach at Lindbergh Schools, was charged by the St. Louis County Prosecuting Attorney’s Office with three counts of second-degree statutory sodomy and first-degree attempted statutory sodomy — deviate sexual intercourse with a person less than 14 years old — on Sept. 30. The charges date back to the 1990s and early 2000s. Wilder is being held on a $300,000 cash-only, no 10% bond. James Wilder III. These cha…