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Dear Abby, Oct. 4

Ralph’s retirement has led to repeated calls, while family tensions rose after the writer’s comments about granddaughter Libby’s weight.

  • A reader identified as 'Ducking Calls' wrote to the Dear Abby column regarding a retired friend named Ralph, who calls three or four times a week to rehash old topics.
  • Ralph retired recently and became bored, prompting the frequent calls despite the writer's subtle hints that daily life rarely changes.
  • Abigail Van Buren advises the writer to enforce a waiting period between calls and immediately change the subject when Ralph raises worn-out topics.
  • A separate reader, 'Meant Well,' reported a son-in-law confronted her after she commented on granddaughter Libby's weight, which was associated with a medical condition.
  • Van Buren advised the reader to turn on 'listening ears' when visiting rather than offering unsolicited remarks. The Dear Abby column, founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips, continues under Van Buren's guidance.
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Charleston Gazette-Mail broke the news in Charleston, United States on Sunday, October 4, 2026.
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