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39-Year-Old Friend Too Anxious to Find Employment
The 39-year-old has not worked in seven years, and his mother’s job help ended when the employer died, the letter writer said.
A 39-year-old man remains unemployed seven years after his last job, relying entirely on his mother for housing and financial support.
The man cites general anxiety and a sleep anxiety disorder preventing him from meeting work start times, while his father died 18 years ago.
His mother, who is of retirement age with limited funds, faces significant pressure to provide housing and food, jeopardizing her own financial future.
Advice columnist R. Eric Thomas recommends the mother establish a schedule for when financial support will end, compelling her son to seek career counseling.
Remote work with flexible hours and therapy are potential paths forward, as the son must take concrete steps to manage anxiety and achieve independence.